Can Lingerie really set the mood for valentine’s? Year after year women and men buy lingerie for their Valentines. Why? Because my boyfriend once told me sex is the answer, never the question. Now, are you still wondering if lingerie can set the mood? The answer is, absolutely!
Wearing lingerie never gets old, so please don’t just wear this gift only on Valentine’s Day. There is more to romance than just this Day. You can make any day a Valentine’s Day. It’s easy, It just takes a little effort. Here are a few of my secrets.
For whoever is in charge of setting up the play day.
- Be spontaneous.
- Get home before your loved one does.
- Upon arrival set the music, something that is sexy for both of you guys.
- Spray perfume, incense, candles, or whatever you both enjoy that’s not too overpowering.
- Shower, I know I shouldn’t have to say this but you would be surprised at how many don’t
- Do your hair and makeup – just for him (this shows you are putting in effort)
Make Your Life Easy
Yes, you can go over the top and spread rose petals on the ground and have candles lit everywhere. Or you can just dim the lights and lay on the bed as they walk in.
Lingerie always says that I want to have sex with you. So if he/she knows that you’re in lingerie then they’re much more apt to think this is a sex day. I’m sure they’ll have a smile on their face. Knowing that you put a little bit of effort into making them happy.
Gift Receiver – This is for You
Receiver, if you see somebody that has put that much effort into the day. Be happy and if you are not, fake it! That’s right and you can even fake that you’re in the mood even if you’re not. It will promote more days like that. If you don’t, it’ll crash the spirit of the person that tried and they won’t even try again.
It’s always fun to buy new lingerie. My favorite place right now is Honey Burdette. I love their quality. I love the style of their boutique, and I love their customer service. But whatever place that you enjoy going to is going to be the perfect one.
You can buy all the lingerie you want but if you don’t set the mood then nothing works.
Oh, and last but not least repeat after me. On the day you want him to feel special don’t bring up anything that could cause conflict. Pick and choose your timing don’t let everything just fly out of your mouth. Learn to hold it in for tomorrow.
Signing off for now. Let the Cool Wind go where it takes you and blows you back when you are ready to come home.
Heather Winfield
Famous Love Quotes
“Take my hand, take my whole life too, but I can’t help falling in love with you.”
Charles M. Schulz (Peanuts)
“All you need is love. But a little chocolate now and then doesn’t hurt.”
